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Welcome back....I hope that your family continues to improve in their health.  The first thing I would like to say is that it is important for you to establish your role as the boss of your house. Even if you feel silly, I would recommend that you declare out loud that this house is yours and if they wish to continue to stay there then they will need to abide by your limitations for them.  State which rooms are off limits, and which times of the day activity needs to cease, and explain why you are making this known ie: night is for rest, and daughters room is off limits because it scares her etc.  As for the four year old that is a little more difficult. You will have to think about what you want to say to her according to what she will be able to process for her age. I think her fear will be greater if you don't talk to her, because then her imagination will go wild.  As long as you let her know that you believe her and will help her, then she will gain courage from that.  Perhaps you could explain to her about how people have souls and when we die our souls do not. That what she is seeing isnt actually a ghost, but a soul of someone once living. That she is special because not everyone can see them, and that they are not there to harm her.    If my memory serves me correctly you live fairly local. Go to Back Door to The Moon in Winslow and tell them that you have a daughter who sees spirits and you would like some stones for her for protection. Children are quick to believe in the power of stones. When you give her the stone(s) make sure you tell a big story with it about how much magic it has to keep her safe at night and just by looking at it she will be comforted. I hope some of this helps, and that others will chime in with their thoughts ........ Lisa B. 

Awesome advice Lisa....thanks for posting all that..
But Lisa is right have to keep it her age level.. which is the hardest thing to do and boundaries are a must... too... keep us all posted...

well i found out why she is scared of the spirit.  when i was at work my husband would let her watch scoobydoo before bed and according to her the ghosts on the show had white eyes but that is not what scared her.  what scared her is she over heard a conversation between my husband and I where my husband was explaining to me what he saw and even though she was a few rooms away she still hears everything and became scared allowing her imagination to put the white eyes on the spirit.  I have explained to her about the spirits that he is not here to scare her, but to watch over her and to let her know that they are here.  she accepted that and wanted to know more.  that night she wrote a note to the spirit in her own hand and told me what she wrote: " ghost look at my new guinea pig princess, i know you covered me up last night."  then she went into her room put it in front of the cage of her guinea pig folded up and i told her that i would make sure that the spirit didn't bother her if it scared her.  From what i found out it is a 6 year old boy that is all i know, but i did set boundaries as far as not to bother my husband or daughter becasue it scares her and my husband still doesn't fully understand what he sees and can't hear them and that he will keep me up all night long trying to get me to figure out who it is and what they want.  he keeps thinking it is his father, but i have to keep explaining to him that his father left after his aunt died.  it's been 4 months and i haven't seen his father in the house.  i explained that when i am home i will only acknowledge when i am alone  and not getting ready or trying to sleep.  since that night things have been pretty somber.  no other reports from anyone in the family.

thanks a bunch to you all.

I am really glad to hear that....Keep us posted with any further developments......Lisa B. 

That is awesome! I am glad to hear that :)
Do keep us all posted though.. :)

hey everyone,

i have some things running through my mind and to be honest i am not sure what to do about it.  i know that for me at least it is impossible for me to completely block out what i see and it is hit or miss with what i hear, but it is getting frustrating when i wish that i could just understand the things that i am seeing and feeling and or hearing.  it is very rare that i hear a actual words.  i more get feelings which are more accurate than i have realized sometimes.  i am still having a hard time understanding and knowing how to control my environment.  I am able to know what i am seeing and think i know what i am feeling, but i am getting concerned that some of my feeling are not actually my feelings.  it is hard because i want to be able to have better control of my ability, but i have no idea how to gain that control.  i am getting tired of hearing different things like foot steps, my name or mama, watching my door fly open and not be able to know why this is still happening even when i set up boundaries.  i have made those boundaries so abundantly clear and it seems like only half of them are being followed.  my husband and i sleep with our door closed so that the cats don't come in yet in the middle of the night after the door has been secured and we have all fallen asleep a few hours late the door knob will jiggle and the open 3/4 of the way and as always i get up look where the cats are and close the door.  one night the cats were even locked in the bathroom when this happened.  my daughter has had no issued and my husband hasn't mentioned any more, but it's like i just can't get away.  i don't mind the ability, but sometimes it gets old having someone there all the time.  i need to figure out how to unplug once in a while.  does anyone have any idea how??????  all i want is 1 day of solitude.

Wow I am sorry that you cannot find peace in your mind.. and the solitude you need.
I am in hopes someone with more experience in this field can come up with something for a resolution and/or help to this.. so anyone please come in and share with us how one with such a gift would find solitude...
I hope you in the meantime can just cope until hopefully it gets better.. at least your daughter is not having scary problems anymore and that is good.. now to find solitude and peace for you though is important too and I hope someone will come in and post with some thoughts and ideas that may work...

i'm just at the point where i am in a room in my house and start having a conversation in my head answering questions that i never heard.  it is annoying when i have a lot of plans to make we are going to be moving soon and i just can't get the plans together if i am interrupted by unknown conversations where i only know one part and can't recognize the other. 

THAT would drive me insane! You are a strong person I must say...
I hope that Lisa or one of the other people can come on and help you more.. I really don't have any expertise in the area to advise to much but I know one of our other Members.. Lisa, Julie and Robin...Nym can help ..
Hopefully they will pop in shortly to give some wonderful advice and help :)

I don't have any advice to help you with this, but I am sorry that this is happening to you causing you such unrest.  I am not a sensitive, so I dont really have any experience that would benefit. I will have to leave this one to Robin or Julie.  I am sorry, I hope things calm down with the move......Lisa B.

Hey loveandfaith~
Boy can I relate! Listen, I do not know if this will work for you, only giving you what has worked for me. House blessings never worked, crystals, stones or banishings never worked, begging/pleading never worked ~ the only thing that truly has worked and continued to work is getting really pissed off.

Here is what I did. State out loud, in your most confident angry tone (kind of like reaming out a teenager), that you are not going to tolerate this anymore. You have had it, they need to ---- (fill in the blank here) off, that from this day forward, you will not discuss them, you will not acknowledge them, you will not modify your life for them. You are through! 

Everyone in the house has to follow this plan. No more discussions, not at home, not in the car, not at a friends house (they can follow you and hear you). In addition, you need to go cold turkey with avoiding all ghost-type shows, books etc. (at least until things stop). 

I am sure they will test you over and over (like a toddler would), but stand your ground. 

It took months for me, but with persistence, I got them to leave us in peace.

This will be harder for you to do then the rest of your family because you can hear them in your head. Blocking the voices takes practice, just like learning to ride a bike. You only get better the more you do it, but every time they "talk", change the focus. ie., "you need groceries", "isn't it a lovely day", "the cat needs a flea bath", whatever it is does not matter. This may take some redirection that can be awkward at first, but truly will become automatic in time. 
Then you will be able to have a day (or longer) of rest from this anytime you want.

If I can do this (my house was a living nightmare), so can anyone.

Hang in there!
Whitelight 

thanks whitelight for the advise.  i just got it today, but it seems that things have been quieter since i was forced to move in with my mother in law and haven't had time to think about or hear anything.  i guess when life is so hectic you don't have time to acknowledge what is not physically there.  i'm only able to check anything online once in a great while becuase we are in the process of moving and are unable to leave my mother in law home alone (she needs 24 hour care due to alzheimers and is quickly going through the stages) that i haven't been home in over a week other than to just grab some things that we need and go back.

thanks again.
loveandfaith

hey everyone.  just got moved into our new home and was finally told by my husband and his mom that the house that we are living in currently when first bought back in the late 80 had a little girl fall down the stairs and die.  the weird thing is before i ever knew this and before i had my daughter i always would see a child falling down the stairs.  even now because of all the moving changes we are making to the home not renovations has really had me notice a lot of different things goin on here.  was outside saying bye to a friend of mine when my car which has a starter went off and locked my car.  the keys were still in the house on the table and everyone was outside.  when i looked at the house it looked as though there was a little girl looking out the living room window and a man standing in my room on the second floor.  i tried the prayer that i had been given and nothing happened i made sure to say it with conviction.  my fatherin law is back also as well as my husbands uncle.  i am sensing more but blocking is the hard part especially where my husband is seeing his father now too.  i just don't know what else i can do in order to get rid of what we don't need in our home.

I would do as whitelight states.. get angry.. that is your best bet.. she is all knowledgeable to this stuff trust me when I say that she is good at this stuff...
And everyone else is too but if all else fails.. try her stuff it may work :)

And whitelight good to see you back posting missed you bunches! :) Hugs!

OK so to say that i am beyond pissed and frustrated and annoyed has now become an understatement. i have now come to terms with this garbage that is a so called gift.  no matter how mad i get how many prayers i say no matter what i do to block this crap out it just won't go away.  if anything it is getting worse.  i wish that there was just a button that i could use to turn it off.  i have no motivation or energy to fight this battle any longer.  i am at the point where i just don't care anymore about the who what when or where of these spirits.  constantly being stalked by them is bad enough.  the residual is a pain in the rear. and the things sometimes moving is really aggravating me.  my vaccuum moved about the end of august just before my husband was admitted to the hospital for a blood clot in the lung.  so because it wasn't where it had been place i decided to take a picture.  thought i saw something in it so i took another and another.  it's on the first but not the other 2.  don't know what to think so i sent it to a friend of mine who sees nothing.  i give up maybe i am just crazy.  i could have swarn that the little girl who fell down the stairs was in my room right next to the vaccuum.  but its too small for anyone to see because of my phone. oh well. just needed to vent a bit and say thanks to all who have tried to help me i am currently done and fed up and give up on ever being rid of this curse.  i am just too tired mentally and emotionally to fight anymore .  Thanks again i really mean it.

love and faith i am sorry that things are getting so bad there for you, with your gifts and the pictures and all...
I wish I could help you more but I am stumped.
Maybe if nothing else contact Whitelight or any of our group members personally they may be able to help you more dear.
I pray for you and your hubby. I hope all goes well and he is doing better now.
I cannot imagine what is like to have the "gift" you have, similar to my son's  unfortunately he cannot turn his off either.
He sees people that are not there that cross in front of us at times as I am driving down the road.. there have been times he wanted to tell me mom you are going to hit that person then realizes they are not there..
at least he does realize it before hand and not tell me :)
so i don't do a big brake in the middle of the road! :)
But on a serious note I hope it gets better for you soon.. I will be praying for things to get better for your family...