sensitives unite!

Lynne, I know that we have discussed coming to your place in the past, and I absolutely respect your son and husbands reluctance to allow it and understand the boundaries they have put up to even let you be involved with our group this much. I thank them for that.  Don't ask them again, or you may lose your internet priveleges......hahahahahahhaha. If things were "scary" out there I know that you wouldn't hesitate to ask us to help. But with three generations of men with special gifts, I don't see that being a problem. So we are happy to sit here and read about the experiences you have had and continue to have.
By the way...........cute puppy in the picture.......................Lisa B. 

Thank you Lisa.. I appreciate your understanding and you are right.. actually only 2 generations of men with gifts.. my son is not a third generation of the family.. my son was adopted by my hubby ...we are thinking he has my natural gifts as well as his great uncles on my side of the family.. the Filipino side.. so it is odd that he has so much.. but there is a thing that we have been researching some.. it does have to do some with Religion...
So this may be a touchy subject... but ...
It is called the Seventh son of the seventh son.. heard of it?
Where there is a 7th child born to the Seventh son of the family..
Well Tippy is a seventh child, that I have had.. we do not know if his Natural Father is a Seventh son as well. We know little of his natural father.. but it is believed that in spiritual times I think B.C. maybe or A.D. sometime old old ancient times.. it was believed that the Seventh Son of the family would get inherited healing gifts and gifts of sorts for being the seventh child born to the Seventh son of the family.. we are not sure or if these gifts are just gifts from the Holy Family.. that he is blessed to have.
But you are right Lisa with all these family members we are safe.. and sound and I appreciate all of you wanting to come up here! :)
And if it did get really out of hand, oh yes! You all would be the FIRST I would call! :)
Puppy is a 4 year old boxer.. named Summer! No offense SummerTulip.. LOL she came with the name! LOL Really she should of been named Licky Lou! that is all she does to you! for hours on end!

That's IT! I'm outta here! TOTALLY offended! LOL Kidding, of course! I've run into that before .... my maiden name was something stupid that made it sound like a porn name so I'm used to name jokes! LOL Summer is a perfectly good name for a dog!I'm sure there's a Lynne or two out there too! LOL

  LOL Summer too funny!  well guess getting married has a good point at times! So you have a different last name legally! LOL
I have not met too many Lynne's that pronounce it the way I do.. which is like Lynn and then A so Lynn-a
You prounounce the E it is Filipino..
a little different and can be confusing.. LOL

I bet you  have to correct people a lot. that'd be frustrating! Sounds pretty to me though!

Well thank you and you are right I have to correct people all the time! People think I am spelling it with an O over the phone! Got to love that so I started saying L as in Lullabye...
And then there are people that call me of course just Lynne without the accent.
And then there are people that over the phone call me Rynne/' instead of Lynne' and I just let them. Especially elderly people just cannot get it right! LOL so i just say whatever! LOL
They are old and hey whatever makes them happy!

Wow.........you have seven children?   That is really interesting about the seventh son, I actuallly had never heard of that. But it does sound to me that he is going to be an extraordinarily gifted man no matter how you look at it.          Lisa B.

I agree.. no I would of had seven children had they all lived. My son is the 7th born I miscarried 6 total before him, he is my miracle baby, he died at birth and they revived him and did an emergency c section to have him. So he is the 7th child and the other 6 were all boys.. they were almost to a point of birthing when I lost them so we knew the sexes of all 6 and I have two boys Asher Aaron Leigh and Stephan Leigh that are buried in California as they miscarried at the 8th month mark.
Hence why with Dave the son I have now I did not even think to buy anything for baby until my 8th month or so.. and even then it was iffy as his heartbeat dropped from 120-140 to 20-40 beats.. so i was in the hospital with my tummy and my baby boy twice a week... to make sure he was going to survive to the 9th month..but he did! :)
IF i had 7 boys I would be pulling my hair out by the way!

Oh Lynne that is so sad!!!  I am happy however that you have a wonderful son and that he is such a joy to you!!!  Yes I agree, 7 boys.....YIKES.........Lisa B.

My house is busy enough can you even imagine 7 boys!!!???
I think I would look like that smiley a lot!

My heart breaks for you. I've had several friends have miscarriages and the pain is so intense. My best friend lost her baby on Halloween and she was only 14 weeks - I can't imagine if she'd been furthur alonq. You are such an amazingly strong woman. Treasure that son of yours!!!

Thank you summer. I do treasure him everyday of my life. thank you again.. :)
I am sorry for your freind, I don't care what term you are in.. you lose a baby it just rips you apart you know? Even if the baby is young at term was not moving or an ultrasound, just knowing something is in there made of you and your hubby or significant other, it is special and to lose it, it can be hard anyways. you know?
But thank you I appreciate the compliment :)
I figure God has a goal for him. So he was kept alive for some reason on this Earth :) I hope we can help him find God's plan together for him as a family :)

  I hope we can help him find God's plan together for him as a family :)

-mainemom207

That is such a beautiful way to look at your role as a mom! :)

Hi, everyone,

This has been such a long night trying to figure out what to type.  I have been blessed/cursed with the ability to see/visualize/predict different things since i was 8 years old and now at the age of 27 came clean to my husband of 6 years due to the fact that i had been having to sleep with the tv on to block out the spirits that would decide to come and visit. Ever since that point he has been extremely discouraging of what i am going through because of the way that this may impact our lives.  we are a christian family who have had more than one church turn their back on us for one reason or another.  he has friends within the church and don't want anyone to know what i am dealing with.  because of this he contacted mghs which i extremely appreciated becuase it helped me feel validated that what i am experiencing is not something that is just in my head.  even after our meeting he still feels that it is something that i need to just hide and block from my mind, but he doesn't realize how impossible it is for me to do.  especially when i am laying in bed and keep getting visions of information pushed into my head.  when i tried to explain this to him he expected me to tell him what i want to do and at this point i don't know what to do.  finally i just walked away to get some air not even a minute later he is yelling for me to come back.  i am walking down my hall and it is freezing goosebumps are all over my body before he even asks me his fear.  he wanted to know who was here with us.  because of the discussion we had been having i told him no one becuase i didn't want any conflict. but i could tell that it was bothering him when he said NO, WHO IS HERE.  i finally told him the two people that were here and his face went white.  he asked me where and i told him and i swear if he were standing up he would have fallen.  he had just seen his fathers face in a picture frame before darting into his office where i am sitting right now. he stood up and walked over to me and felt the extreme cold as well and asked me where he was, he was still in the office but quickly left for our daughters room where he stood in the hall outside her door.  for the first time in his life my husband saw his father wearing exactly what i said looking exactly as i said.  but yet he was still afraid.  I just don't know what to do with this.  he says that he believes me, but yet he doesn't.  I just wish that I understood how to understand what i am seeing and be able to know how to deal with situations between my husband.  because he either wants me to use my ability or to block my ability, but can't make a decision either way.  i am supposed to be able to control my ability to suit his terms and at this point in my knowledge of my ability because i am just becoming aware of it, it is not a remote control.  Any advise???

welcome to the forum loveandfaith,
I'm not a sensitive myself, but there are a few things I've seen other friends of mine dealing with, in somewhat similar situations. The first thing you should tell your husband, is that like any skill, this is going to take time to assimilate to. It's just like learning to drive a car. It's something that takes practice, and time. He should truly understand something like that. Patience is key to understanding, and practice the key to mastery. As far as being able to sleep at night, try burning some sage before going to bed. It acts as a kind of "boogie be gone", and should help.   good luck

Might I suggest using an MP3 player instead of the TV.   It may help relive some of the marital stress of one having to have noise in the background and one that cant sleep with it on.    Us men tend to play the " Yes Dear" game in fear of sleeping in the garage. 

thanks kaspr and bluesman74,
fortunately for my husband we don't have a garage and the only place that he would have to worry about sleeping is on the couch becuase i wouldnt put him out in this cold.  last night after the post i advised him that if we wanted me to be able to talk to his dad or block certain things out that i would have to fine tune the ability.  he told me that "that was fine, but i don't want it becoming an all day thing where you are detracted from the family".  I completely understand that and wish he would just understand that if we are spending time as a family i want to be able to just focus on us as a family and not what i am hearing or seeing.  just like when i was playing with my daughter.  i want to be tuned out and not get distracted by someone laughing.

Love and Faith, welcome to the forum and though I am not sensitive in anyway at all I have many family members that are.
My son is 12 since he was 3 he has had abilities and it took him a bit to control them. And we had to tell him there are certain places you show your abilities and certain people you show them too but you don't show to them to anyone and everyone.
EVER and all the time.
He has learned to fine tune them and well he is doing fine with them.
 
Your husband is going to have to realize you are not a light switch, turn me off and on.
 
The spirits are going to come to you for help as whitelight, one of our great members here stated, as she is very sensitive, you are a glowing beam of light to them, and a beacon and they are going to come to you for guidance and help.
So both of you have to get used to it to some degree and level.
If you want some peace for a day that may be hard to come by.
I agree with the sage, but I would also ask these spirits hey look can I have a moment of rest please or can I have a moment with my kids, can you let me be for today? And I will be here for you tommorrow? Something along those lines.
You would be amazed how spirits are understanding to that and could possibly come back to you later.
I know my uncle who was very sensitive and a priest, of buddha practices, had to do this a few times.
And he would make days that he would just sit in this enclosed room quiet room and tell them okay today I can help you and I am ready to hear your needs.
One at a time and he would handle the affairs best he could of each spirit for about 8 hours.
I know it sound silly but no one would ever disturb him and when this door was closed and locked you knew better then to bother him he would always go into deep meditation and did not want to break the silence or the meditation of it with noises from the outside.
We would come knock and break his concentration only when we thought it was about time to come out of his coma and get back to reality.
Which worked quite well for years for him and the family
But it is not something you can or will be able to just shut off and on you are not a light switch and though you can get it under control it will be there always.
And your husband needs to respect you and respect your gift and realize this is nothing evil, this is a gift from God and you were chosen as a special person to  have this gift. Not everyone can have and handle this gift.
And he should be proud that his wife has this ability and not shun you.
Also you need to find the right church that understands this there are churches out there that shun it but there are churches that find this to be an amazing gift and a blessing, which it can be for you and your family.
Churches that shun this are not right, they have no right to judge anyone that is not their place and they will be accounted for later. But there is someplace for you all to be comfortable with the gifts you have just keep searching.
I know I was Mormon at one time and well I got excommunicated as I was judged by the woman for working a "man's" job and not barefoot and pregnant and all ready have 13 kids!
Well I spoke my mind one day and got excommunicated and I asked and questioned the church too much so I was excommunicated, when the Elders came over to "talk some sense" into me! Please it is a crock! And to anyone that is Mormon on this forum, that is my opinion. And I mean no disrespect to you and/or your church, but it was not for me.
I only did it because my then husband was so into the church I felt I needed to do so.
Wrong decision on my part.
so give it time tell hubby have patience that you to find to work it out...
And you two need to pray about this and you may find your answers as well.
Your marriage sounds very strong and I think you two can work it out together as a couple and family

well my hubby has come to terms with things and tells me not to mention what i experience to anyone outside of mghs or the two of us which is fine because i don't need the harassment from people who don't understand.  the other day one of the spirits who has been with me a while decided to start harassing my husband,  i was forced to bid her adeau but think i kicked out everyone and not just her.  now i have realized that i spoke more to the spirits than to anyone.  i don't think i have ever felt more alone.  is this normal? i have even felt more conversed with the spirits than my own husband becuase he only talks when there is an issue.  Now it is like i have no one to talk to.  any ideas?