Topic: Have a Question need some advice for my family member.

Apartment buildings are tricky because of the lack of access to the rest of the building. The biggest thing to remember is that "cracks" can appear in any sort of protected barrier, so some upkeep is needed. I used to have to burn sage and myrrh in an old apartment at least once a week to keep some not so nice things out of my living area.

Thank you for the advice I think i will be getting her some as I want these spirits to stay away as they have a new baby, her daughter does and is living there with them. So I thought of doing the sage thing.
My husband knows of native american ways to omit the spirits and such we also know the landlord if he is there we may see if we can have access to the other apartment where the guy died no one lives there now I think there is only two apartments there and maybe we can clean it out completely.
I hope.
He may think us nuts afterward and all but I hope not he is a good customer of ours with junk but it needs to be done.

thank you guest it is very appreciated with your thoughts and ideas. I will keep all posted on how this goes. Oh and true he may not haunt the place and I really hope he doesn't haunt the place. I am hoping he was so depressed there that he does not stay there.
but we will see. We plan to go there today if all works out in our busy lives! Ugh!
And see her and if she is going to be home.
Thank you again :) it is very appreciated.

There have been so many posts here lately that I actually missed this one....for that I am sorry. I think that you husband will have great success clearing her apartment for her, and if you teach her how to keep her personal space clear she should be o.k. Even though it is an apartment, she can keep her space clear. They should make it a nightly ritual to ask their guides to protect them and keep all safe from harm, and state that only energy intended for the good of the people living there is allowed to enter. Some people like to envision their home surrounded by a protective bubble or light while they say this. Not only does this comfort the living, but it reinforces to the dead that they are not welcome in their home. The main thing is that whatever they do to protect themselves they have to believe it is going to work. We are only an hour or so away if she wants us to come. Let us know how it goes..............Lisa B.

Well she is thinking of you to come Lisa I have to look up the history on this house. There is more then one spirit I think she is dealing with.
This is what happened...
My husband walks in and the spirit left. Everything was normal and no feeling what so ever. He did a blessing on the home. And we left about two nights later,
Her daughter has started hearing footsteps up in the attic there is no way to get to the attic and no way to get into the attic either heavy footsteps, and my sister in law heard it later that night as well. The ruckus seems to start up between 8p and 2a.
Also now the entity is acting up in the environment with turning the computer off and on and it won't leave the are of the back room and my sister in laws bedroom. Making things move and knocking things around the place.
The cat and even the dog she had would act odd.
We are thinking it is mad because my husband invaded its space and area.
she is telling it to just leave them be though and taking power over her home. It is not bothering them just being mischevious so far.

Well here is what history I do know of the place.
First 3 weeks before she moved in someone else died in the apartment complex. Where is not known but she is sure not in her apartment. Then now her neighbor who did commit suicide.

Then before that on that same land was a hotel and a fire broke out and many people passed in that fire. And well she also things there was a burial grounds where she is at. Many of the people in that fire were never removed as well. For whatever reason they just cleaned up everything and kept building on top of it.
so with all this mix going on it is no wonder there is some issues I think.

We are going back this time but later in the night to do more for her and meet with the spirit itself. My husband wants to rid of it for them and send it to the light or wherever it needs to go depending on what it is.

He is getting the feeling it is there only because it was there before and not evil. And it is roaming because it was the spirit's home and place of living.
Myself i want to go alone and try to communicate with it! lol :)
But my sister in law wants to bring someone in but afraid she will anger it and/or bring on more issues ;)
So she is still thinking of you guys too! I told her about you all.
Especially with the baby we have to do something to make sure they are all safe.

Wow there is a lot of history in that building. I would not be surprised if there were mulitiple spirits there. With an untimely death it is even more likely that spirits are unaware or too traumatized to move on. It is not uncommon for a spirit to remain in its "home" and be protective of their space, but they usually back down when a homeowner asserts their authority. It sounds like you got a stubborn one there who is reluctant to move on. Once your husband figures out who it is he will be better able to help him move on, or banish him if he has to. Can you email me privately with the physical address so I can send distance Reiki to see if that will help quiet the house.........Keep us posted.......Lisa B.

Sure Aero and thank you I will do that :) and I will keep you posted and thank you again :)Everything you do is so appreciated all. I am hoping it does not come to a banish but a moving on. My husband wants my sister to live without it making it understand that this spirit needs to move on or just live there in peace with the family that they are in another part of the "life system" as he calls it. Life system = born, grow up, get old and pass on and then there is a life you deal with beyond and you are put there by your own choices and what you do is your choice and want. And yes it does seem like it is going to be stubborn no matter what. I think you are right Lisa the trauma of this person's life and not knowing they are really gone may be a big part of this.
I am afraid to say it is going to be a hard spirit to rid of no matter what! Any help for her from a distance is very appreciated and I will definitely keep you posted!

Aero it is working! I did not tell my sister in law anything about what you were doing and I asked her just point blank, have things quieted down and she said yes quite a bit they have. And that she can finally sleep in her bedroom and be comfortable to some point still a little uncertain feeling but not too much at all.
But she can sleep in the room anyways. That is a beginning anyways to this process.
I want to thank you Lisa for your effort and for your prayers I appreciate it so much thank you again. :)
I am going to try to find out more about the land though. Thank you again.

I will keep sending Reiki. I am so glad that she is finally able to be comfortable in her own home!!!! That is great news!!!!!!! Glad to be able to help!!!!!!! Lisa B.

Okay here is an update...

Grandpa has many stronger gifts then his son, my hubby..
And this is what he has sensed there....

First there are three little children that love my sister in law.
Especially when she is holding the baby.. they think of her as grandma and come around her and the baby all the time.

There is nothing evil there at all.
Or anything to cause harm to them at all.

He is not sure if the children are male or female but they are maybe no more then 3-5 years old.

That is the slight spirit that my hubby felt.
And it is understandable why they left, children don't care for my husband I don't know why they cry everytime lol :)
Soo, that is what was found so far. And he feels nothing there wrong with the house. She is safe and there is lots of love in the house right now and everything is with the children.
The tugs she feels on her once in awhile are the children getting her attention along with the computer turning on and the things in the house moving around and such are just children playing nothing more so that is all good..
We are thinking from the hotel fire as far as we know...
When it burnt down may of took these children.
So that is the update :)

It always amazes me that children would be left to wander in the afterlife. I wonder why their relatives wouldnt come to them after death and lead them to where they need to be to continue their life's journey. Can your husband help them move on? I am glad that your family now knows that they are safe from harm. Sometimes all that is needed is a little knowledge to be able to make sense of the unexplained...........Lisa B.

Actually grandpa tried to get them to move on but they want to be with Alice and the baby. They have no intentions of wanting to leave. They love that baby and feel they need to be there to protect it. So maybe there is a reason right now why they are there. Is all I can think of. When they are done with their time and need to be there I think they will move on. That is all I can figure. Grandpa tried to lead them to the light but one of them looked at him and said no. We cannot go yet.
So they left and came back later, when the baby was awake and in my sister in law's arms. Alice is my sister in law, by the way..
And when Alice is cooking for the baby or the family they are all there too.
Around her.
They look up to her as grandma. So they are happy where they are at, Grandpa said. There is a reason for them to be there I guess. But I agree Lisa I don't know why children are not with their families when death happens. But maybe their families did not care for them.

I did find the hotel though in the vicinity and more history on Bangor, Downtown. I found that in 1911 on April 11th, downtown Bangor, Maine had a huge fire that destroyed most of the Downtown area. Well we are thinking the Hotel Windsor was right next to or near her home there. or on the land there. Which also burnt in the fire. Along with another 300 something homes in the vicinity of the area. I was looking at a map at the time of the fire and we are thinking it spread to her area as well, just her street name was different back then. Or added later.
And there were deaths of fireman and people and all then. What they could find at the time in recovery efforts. It is not like they had the scientific stuff or the knowledge that dogs could find people too. At that time frame.
So that may explain a lot of things too.
Lots of history in the downtown bangor area. Thanks for the post Lisa. :) and again for your help too!